"bob and john" (bobandjohn)
12/28/2018 at 09:05 • Filed to: None
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"bob and john" (bobandjohn)
12/28/2018 at 09:05 • Filed to: None | 1
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yay. Just in time for new years.
Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:15 |
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Yeah but being a superhero is fucking awesome....
random001
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:23 |
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Don’t think about it as getting dumped, think about it as being set free.
Or something.
I don’t know. I’m sorry to hear this.
Chuckles
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:24 |
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Hey, at least now you can spend New Year’s Eve and Day doing whatever the hell makes you happy.
Hopefully you made it through Christmas without spending a ton on presents.
fintail
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:25 |
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Something something 99 problems something something something
Freedom!
boredalways
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:26 |
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I ask for the Xmas gift back
The Dummy Gummy
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:28 |
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Tis the season for bad news. We just got some real shit news yesterday too. On the upside you can start the year off without a piece of shit by your side. Times may feel shitty right now, but they’ll get better friend. Happy New Year!
$kaycog
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:29 |
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There is life after breakup. Hang in there.
OPPOsaurus WRX
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:31 |
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I’m sure it won;t be hard finding a single girl on NYE. The y will be on the hunt for the single guy so they can have a kiss at Midnight.
Nibby
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:31 |
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might be a blessing in disguise
btw i’m single ;)
Rainbow
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:32 |
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Now you, too, get to experience the j oy s of internet dating. If you choose to, anyway.
But yeah, being single is a rollercoaster. One minute you’re like, shit, I can poop with the door open! And the next, you’re like, whoa, that girl walking across the street is super cute, and you get lost in your thoughts for 20 minutes building the perfect hypothetical partner out of her.
But then you go home and poop with the door open.
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bob and john
> boredalways
12/28/2018 at 09:33 |
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she offered it back. but it was a cheap set of earings and I didnt really want to hold on to them.
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bob and john
> Rainbow
12/28/2018 at 09:35 |
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you see, i WOULD poop with the door open but I still live with my parents.
At least now I can work on my bikes in peace without worring about wasing time not seeing her
TheRealBicycleBuck
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 09:35 |
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Let’s see, you’re in school, you have a job, you work on motorcycles all the time.... there’s not a lot of room for a girlfriend in there. Girls, especially young ones, require a lot of attention if you want to keep them around. They also have to be the right match. If it’s not, it will never work.
Think of it
like a bike you loved that just never fit quite right. It may have
been
beautiful and sexy, but
it messed up
your back
every time you rode it. You tried a new seat, maybe a set of riser bars, but it just never fit right. In the end
, you
passed
it along to the next guy because you couldn’t make it work for you
. No harm, no foul.
I’ve always thought it best to get yourself in order (degree, job, lifestyle, etc.) before adding a significant other into the mix. That way you are settled into who you want to be and can concentrate on finding someone who fits into that mix. It may be someone who’s into the same things as you. It may be someone who has her own things to do and is willing to give you the space to be you.
Whether you realized it or not, this wasn’t the right fit for this time in your life. The right one will come along. You have lots of time.
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bob and john
> OPPOsaurus WRX
12/28/2018 at 09:36 |
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maybe, but I’m going to a small friends party, so some how I doubt that will happen
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bob and john
> TheRealBicycleBuck
12/28/2018 at 09:37 |
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I know. the sad thing was, she was into all of the same stuff as I was. a few friends joked that she was effectivly, a female version of me with how well we clicked.
though I do appreciate the words. it does help a little bit.
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random001
> $kaycog
12/28/2018 at 10:03 |
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$kaycog knows what’s up. Listen to the den mother.
RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 10:12 |
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That sucks man, sorry to hear it....I haven’t managed to find a gf in a few years as sad as that sounds, so I feel your pain. Plenty of time and fish in the sea though friend, soon it will be a brand new year, just be the best you that you can be and I am sure somebody will be found! :)
diplodicus
> Rainbow
12/28/2018 at 11:21 |
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I can’t even poop with the door open because the door covers the toilet when its open...
Mercedes Streeter
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 11:27 |
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*Hugs*!!
If I’ve learned anything from the few or so girlfriends and that odd boyfriend I had over the past year, the person you’ll meet next will likely be even better. The heart will hurt for now, but you’ll come out of it a better person than when you went in. Someday you’ll look back at today and be glad it happened. <3
Side note: Earlier this year I actually dated a close friend of another Midwest area Oppo. That felt super duper weird.
AMGtech - now with more recalls!
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 12:12 |
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Sorry man. Time for a duck. It'll make you feel better. Trust me.
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boredalways
> $kaycog
12/28/2018 at 12:22 |
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While true, why have my last 5 years been an utter hell of loneliness!?
BJ
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 12:26 |
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$kaycog
> boredalways
12/28/2018 at 12:29 |
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I’d say that you need someone in your life.
We all react differently.
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boredalways
> $kaycog
12/28/2018 at 13:38 |
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Thanks, $kaycog.
Do you accept PayPal?
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$kaycog
> boredalways
12/28/2018 at 13:40 |
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No charge for a friend. You’re a friend.
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bob and john
> $kaycog
12/28/2018 at 16:12 |
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always wondered where you went. We missed you
Future Heap Owner
> bob and john
12/28/2018 at 16:13 |
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I’m sorry to hear this, man. I’m just over three weeks out from getting dumped myself and I’m still reeling from it. I hope you recover better than I am.
Sam
> bob and john
12/29/2018 at 12:42 |
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Hey me too. On the sa me day, even.
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bob and john
> Sam
12/29/2018 at 12:44 |
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*raises glass*
themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles
> bob and john
12/30/2018 at 00:32 |
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One of the advantages of getting older is that you learn what’s important in life for yourself and your own happiness. Yeah, this just happened, but hopefully it wasn’t someone being abusive to the other and it is just the nature of maturing adults finding their paths. Sometimes two people’s paths converge at some point in time but then re-diverge later. It hurts, but that’s how it goes.
Not gonna preach about the single life or spam you with advice cause I think you’re about my age and you’ve been around that block. You know what’s good for you and what isn’t. I will however be the voice that reminds you that the point of NYE isnt to see if you can’t tart off the new year as hungover as possible so that your year can only get better. I’ve done stupid shit after getting elegantly smashed after a break-up and I’d hazard a guess more than one person reading this (you included) have too.